From: Barbara Ploegstra Hunt (bploegstra@compuserve.com> To: Grapevine (m-grapevine@lists.us.mensa.org); For-M (for-m@egroups.com) Sent: Sunday, July 16, 2000 11:34 PM Subject: MGrapevine: David Mann's Funeral > Eileen Steinhice, former RVC of Region 5 and close friend of David and > Linda Mann, wrote this for the Compuserve forum and has graciously allowed > me to share it with all Mensans. > > ----Forwarded Message(s)---- > Sb: David's Funeral > Fm: Eileen Steinhice (74073.1663@compuserve.com) > > As you would expect, the funeral of David Francis Mann was SRO. There was > a side section of the chapel which was filled, and the entryway was filled > with people standing. > > Oscar Zeiger and I did have the honor of saying a few words before the > service started. We expressed the condolences of American Mensa, but we > spoke because we were Mensa friends who were priviledged to have known him > long and well, as were many of the people there. The number of Mensans > there was a tribute, and the widespread weeping left no question as to how > we felt. David's brother Terry, who has been in charge of the arrangements, > told us the Mensa folks have been of great help this week, and it means > more than we'll ever know. > > The service was concluded at the gravesite. As the long line of cars went > through New Hope, even a farmer working his field stopped his tractor in > respect, as we passed. > > Linda had contacted Larry Bauer earlier that day, and asked him to tell the > Mensa family that they were welcome to head over to 'the house' afterwards. > Even in her sorrow, she was gracious in giving us a place to gather before > we had to head to our respective homes. And you won't find it surprising > to hear that about every other carful of M's stopped at a store first, and > brought sodas, chocolate, and other hospitality supplies. > > When Linda got there she immediately said how much better this was than > coming home to an empty house. Her son later commented he could see a big > difference in her since she came home, and could talk with friends and > begin to unwind. > > Naturally, we wonder how to help Linda. My opinion is that continued > contact, through mail or calls as the spirit moves, will serve well in > reminding her that even though she has lost her best friend, she has not > lost her only friend. [Her address is P.O. Box 267, New Hope AL 35760.] > > Eileen > > P.S. I forgot to mention: He was indeed buried in that tuxedo. >

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